Why Would You Vote for Sarah Palin?

#1 No, I Would Not Vote For Sarah Palin

To put it simply, I would not vote for Sarah Palin.

It is true that my political ideology and hers are often very far apart. But I do have respect for some folks on the other side of the aisle, and political ideology is not always a barrier to receiving my vote, since I believe that what is most important is that a public servant be a servant.

There are two main reasons I will not vote for Sarah Palin. Number one is her affiliation with Christian Dominionist groups. Freedom of (and from) religion is an important foundation of our country. Revisionists are always attempting to undermine this freedom, to replace it with the freedom to be any flavor of Christian, and in general, to create a soft theocracy. Palin has shown a willingness to pander to these people. I absolutely refuse to allow that. She seeks her power by walking a path that appeals to fringe extremists.

Number two is that she is a quitter. Public service is a hard thing. If it is too demanding, she should not seek public office. I have little sympathy for the litany of excuses offered on her behalf.

No, I would not vote for Sarah Palin.

Submitted by Matthew Rohr.

#2 It's Like Pizza...

Why would I vote for Sarah Palin? Well, right off the bat, the reasons why I wouldn't vote for her spring to mind.  She does, however, have one thing in her favor.  She's a Republican. That would get her my vote no matter who was on the ticket for the Democrats.  I feel the way about Republicans that I feel about pizza. Bad pizza, though it may be awful, may make you sick, may make you never want to eat pizza again, is still pizza. It's still better than brussel sprouts. A bad Republican is better than any Democrat.

Is it a good reason? Maybe not... but it's what I've got.  Now let's hope I never have to use it.

Submitted by Lauri Lenox.

#3 Passion

I can't imagine a situation in which I would vote for Sarah Palin. Voting for her would pretty much go against all of my political views. However, there is one characteristic I find in Palin (and most other conservatives) that could possibly attract my vote if the situation is desperate, passion. While I mostly don't agree with conservatives or their methods of persuasion, I sometimes can't deny their passion. Conservatives have levels of passion I wish I could regularly find in liberals. I thinks it's basically because conservatives stick to so many ideas and principles that they are able to develop passion for their familiarities. Liberals contemplate change and progression, continuous growth as a civilization. New ideas are exciting, but of course they bring uncertainty. I'm not saying it's impossible to find passion in a liberal. Look back at Obama's campaign, you can't get more passionate than that.

Submitted by Damian Trudell

#4 If Someone Held A Gun...

I'd would vote for Sarah Palin if someone held a gun to not just my head, but my entire family's. Yeah, that's pretty much the only circumstance. She's appalling in too many ways to describe, but I'll sum up my main qualm with a quote I recently heard:

"When fascism comes to America, it will be wrapped in an American flag and carrying a cross."

Submitted by Amanda Rogers, Esq. Visit her blog - Seven Eighty One.

#5 People Gasping In Disgust And Horror

These are my thoughts on the question and they are not eloquent; maybe some would consider them naive, but here they are nonetheless.  I might as well come out of the closet now, I voted for Palin and McCain.  While at this very moment there are people gasping in disgust and horror at the very thought, I was one those who felt it was the best decision of the two candidates.  Isn't that an amazing statement in and of itself, "I" thought it was the best..."  We as Americans have the wonderful ability to vote as our conscience so chooses.  We are not bulled or harassed, taken at gunpoint to the voters booth, or manipulated (ok, maybe a little, but that is a whole other topic all together!) into voting for someone other than OUR CHOICE.  We have the ability to research every candidate and then vote based upon the knowledge we have accumulated according to the information given.

I believe that every person who runs for President has good intentions, that they want to make our country something to be proud of, admired; a country that its constituents can stand by and most importantly believe in.  Sadly they are human, and with that humanness they make promises that are never kept; more men are sent to a war instead of coming home, our elderly are rejected medical care that is desperately needed, and jobs continue to be scarce.  Most people believe we need a President that has experience in the political arena (aka circus, yes once again another topic to be debated) or a military background, or charisma, but basically I vote according to not only research but also who I feel God is leading me to vote for.  If it is a Democrat then so be it, if a Republican then that is great as well, but essentially I would vote for Palin based upon what I stated above....information gathered and prayer.  In the end, I believe God appoints all leaders in the positions they hold and it is my duty to pray for my President to make decisions that will make this country not only great, but be a place of safety for my children and others, despite whether I voted for them or not.

Submitted by Hope Cloud.

#6 Because She Is Smoking Hot!

Really, I'm very impressed that she is not ashamed to be pretty. Though I realize this is a sweeping generality, I believe that women in politics - and power in general - often forget the importance of their femininity. The pursuit of power and prestige is not a sum-loss game with retaining one's physically attractive attributes - and Sarah Palin seems to understand that her "women-ness" is important to her success. It is almost as important as her faith and her ultra-conservative platform. How many women do you know that would vote for her - just because she is a woman? In the same way, if I were ever to have to vote for her - it would probably be, however shallow this may sound, because she is good looking.

Submitted by Jason L. Buchanan. Visit his Facebook Profile.

How Much Time Do You Waste?

#1 I Spend Way Too Much Time on Facebook

I’m not going to say that I don’t waste time. In the past two or three years I have given myself a schedule of cleaning so I can keep myself accountable to the rest of my family. As long as I do what I have scheduled  for that day of the week, then I don’t feel like the other time during the day has been wasted. Granted, I spend WAY too much time on Facebook. I am not addicted, but I do get on there quite frequently during the day. I do watch a good lot of TV. I don’t have dvr (thank goodness) or I might watch much more. Both TV and the internet are most likely a waste of my time, and maybe I will change sooner than later. I guess the real answer is: How much time do I actually use wisely?

Submitted by Amanda Bell.

#2 Walk The Middle Path

I grew up driven by a father who settled for nothing less than the best. In his mind, there was no call for "wasting" time. There were always chores, there were always jobs that needed doing. I learned from my time spent under rules like those. There are always going to be chores and jobs. Always. They aren't going anywhere. 

It took me a long time to deprogram myself. I used to get horrific headaches when I was doing anything that my father might label "wasting" time. It made it difficult for me to do anything for fun or relaxation. But I continued to push myself until I was able to take time for me, to do things specifically just for my entertainment - for no reason other than that I wanted to.

Now, I guard my free time jealously. It is important to "waste" time. One of the deep purposes of life is to enjoy living, to enjoy the process of life, to breathe in and out and smile. Your chores and jobs will always be there waiting for you.

Moderation in all things. Walk the middle path. Balance.

Submitted by Matthew Rohr.

#3 Let The Rationalizing Begin

Let the rationalizing begin. Define “waste”. I do agree that waiting in a line that isn’t moving, or spending three hours on a movie that I kept thinking had to get better, but didn’t, is a waste of time. Activities such as these that are not productive, not enjoyable or maybe even detrimental, I consider a waste of time. I don’t think I have much of this kind of wasted time. Eight hours of sleep when I could actually function on about five could account for three wasted hours daily, but I believe I function better and might possibly live longer because of it. The three to four hours I spend each week checking on a relative in a nursing home could be considered a waste of time, but maybe it’s more important than I think it is. Some would say the time I spend in church, praying and reading my Bible is a waste, but I think my life is richer because of the time I spend developing a relationship with my Creator. In general, I get more enjoyment when I “stop to smell the roses”. If I spend an occasional weekend in my PJ’s “vegetating”, I don’t consider it wasted time. We all need some “down time” in order to rejuvenate and repair. So ultimately, what is wasted time? Maybe like beauty it is in the eye of the beholder.

Submitted by Donna Buchanan.

#4 What Are You Supposed To Be Doing?

Everyone wastes a little time.  I think it's important to know that not everyone's definition of "waste" is the same. It also depends on what you are supposed to be doing with your time. If you're getting paid to write computer programs and you're playing around on Facebook, you're wasting someone else's time by not doing what your time has been intended for. In order to determine how much time we waste, we need to first ask ourselves, "What are you supposed to be doing?"

I am a housewife and a mother.  I don't have a set schedule.  I have a list of things I know I need to get done on a daily, weekly, and monthly basis, and I know that I have to allow myself the time to do those things.  If I know cleaning the bathrooms and doing the laundry is my job for Monday, I make sure I have the time to get that done.  If it takes me an hour, and that's all I needed to do for the day, then the rest of my time is mine. I can do what I want with it. If I choose to watch a 6 hour Hoarders marathon, that is my choice. It's not time wasted, it's time well spent.

Could I change the world in those 6 hours? Maybe. But I'd rather watch Hoarders.

Submitted by Lauri Lenox.

#5 Like People That Don't Use Keyboard Shortcuts

This is a dangerous question. Am I willing to be critical of myself and reveal all of the ways in which I fail? Because honestly, I always feel like I’m wasting time. I guess I assume that if something – which I may have completely intended to do – didn’t get accomplished…I must’ve wasted time.

Wasted time is like people that don’t use keyboard shortcuts. How much time have you wasted clicking on the “File” menu and selecting “Save”, instead of simply pressing ⌘+S? Or, for that matter, how much time have we all wasted by continuing to use QWERTY keyboards?

I am reminded of an often-quoted verse from the Bible, in the book of Ecclesiastes 1:9, “What has been will be again, what has been done will be done again; there is nothing new under the sun.” In the same way, I believe there is always a better way to accomplish a task – ways of which I am not yet wise… I could spend my life pursuing better ways. But then, my pursuit of better ways would become an infinite futility…inevitably the worst way to waste time.

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#6 The Amount Is Incalculable

I have ADHD.  To some those four letters are seen as an excuse, a cop out.  To them I don't have anything physically wrong with me.  I'm just disorganized...or better yet...lazy.  In the past there have been days at work where the only thing I can concentrate on is not working.  Throw in the daily commute for the icing on the cake.  How much time do I waste exactly?  The amount is incalculable, but it's more than I know I should.  Heck I've even wasted some time writing this paragraph.  Hopefully Jason's not waiting up for this.

Submitted by Neal Harkner

Why Do You Celebrate Christmas?

#1 Someone Died Last Year Because Of It

Every year on Christmas day, I make sure to take the time to remember the purpose of the holiday and take note of the many blessings in my life. That is my way of celebrating Christmas. And that is the only part of the holiday season I enjoy. It is a time to make sure we take care of those who are truly in NEED. It is not a time to become stressed over what our loved ones WANT. It is so sad how much focus we have put on the commercialization of Christmas; even to the point that someone died last year because of it.

Submitted by Damian Trudell, Visit his blog - "My Thoughts"

#2 Christmas Is Not A Story

I am a broken, depraved person. Left to my own devices I will stumble along through life succumbing to a multitude of self-serving, self-centered, self-pleasing, actions. It is only thru the grace of God that I can be saved from myself.

Christmas is not a story. It’s history. Christmas is not a materialistic holiday (at least not to me.) It is a celebration of a birth that occurred some 2000 years ago. Christmas is a celebration of the day that God sent down his son, fully God and fully human, to save us from our sins. Born to an unwed, virgin mother; Jesus Christ entered this world not in all the splendid grandeur expected but into a humble beginning.

So yes; I celebrate Christmas. And I celebrate Christmas to honor a birth. But how do I celebrate? I celebrate by spending less and giving more. I celebrate by giving gifts to my family and close friends. I celebrate by spending time with my family, my friends, and people I don’t even know. I celebrate by spending less and giving more. I celebrate by sacrificially giving to Living Water International (this year), by serving others, and by remembering the birth of Jesus Christ.

Submitted by Brian Hummel.


#3 An Incredibly Strong Cultural Tradition

I celebrate Christmas because it's an incredibly strong cultural tradition in the United States and I happen to have been born here.  I think this is the case with most people in this country even if they are of the "Jesus is the reason for the season" persuasion.  Given how much more I hear "I've finished my Christmas shopping!" or "Just put up the Christmas tree" or "Taking the kids to get pictures with Santa tomorrow" rather than "Hey, isn't it neat that Jesus was born around this time a couple thousand years ago?" I'd go so far as to say Jesus is no longer the sole reason for the season even if one does happen to be Christian.  The reason for the season instead seems to stem from multiple sources all boiling down to a very strong cultural priority to wrap up the year in a way that celebrates family, friends, good will, and reflection (and you know, stuffing our faces with cookies, spending hundreds of dollars on stuff we don't need, and driving ourselves insane with planning).  And that's fine with me; whatever floats your boat...  What I do get annoyed with is the hypocritical nature of a lot of those who say "Jesus is the reason for the season" on one hand yet openly incorporate greed and glutony into the holiday and pass this notion on to their children (for instance, in the form of a Black Friday "win" or the latest and greatest toy being unwrapped on Christmas morning to be flaunted in front of neighbors and friends).  I also get annoyed at those people (usually the same lot) who claim the term "Happy Holidays" is an afront to Christmas or Christianity as a whole (ahem, Bill O'Reilly and your ilk) like any celebration of other holidays at this time automatically amounts to a dimunition of the importance of their religious expression.  I'd like to explain to these individuals that December 25th is not actually Jesus' birthday; the date was switched from January 7th when we switched from the Julian calendar to the Gregorian one we now follow.  And, I'd like to explain to these individuals that historians have long agreed that even the January 7th date was likely picked out of a hat to align with already existing pagan holidays or Winter Solstice in order to more easily convert people.  I'd also like to explain that Hanukkah and Winter Solstice celebrations have been around a heck of a lot longer than Christmas celebrations, so if anyone has a right to be pissed, it's probably not the relative latecomers.  And, most of all, I'd like to explain to these people that unless you're a Muslim jihadist, there shouldn't be a battle over whose religion is more revered or important so they should leave other people be.  But, I digress... Everyone celebrates Christmas or "the Holidays" for their own reasons.  And, everyone should be free to do so...  I happen to celebrate "Christmas" (I suppose not the literal "Christ's Mass" of the word's origin, but the modern incarnation of the day) because it is a wonderful way to set aside time for recuperation, time for family, time for friends, and time for appreciating and loving one another (family, friends, and strangers alike).  Ain't nothin' wrong with that.

Submitted by Amanda Rogers, Esq. Visit her blog - Seven Eighty One.

#4 Its Kind Of Like Being Republican

I celebrate Christmas for many reasons.  Celebrating any holiday, Christmas included, is kind of like being a Republican.  You're a Republican growing up because your parents are Republicans, but as you grow up and your views on the world change, your opinions about politics (or holidays, as the case may be) change and develop as well. 

I celebrate Christmas because I believe in what it represents. I believe that Jesus is the Savior of the world and that He came to us as a baby in a manger to save us from our sins.  Christmas is the celebration of the birth of Christ, so why wouldn't I celebrate it?

I celebrate Christmas because I believe in the spirit of it, the spirit of love and giving.  I know many people think that the holiday is all about greed and the gimmes, but I believe that if you allow yourself to truly feel the spirit of the holiday, you will realize that it really is about giving and love. And who wouldn't want to celebrate that?


Submitted by Lauri Lenox.

#5 Let "Christmas" Go And Call it "Shopping Holiday #12"

Is it OK to say I celebrate Christmas because everyone else does? I mean, honestly, how weird would I be if I didn’t celebrate Christmas? So, maybe I don’t think we really get the point of Christmas being a celebration of Christ’s birth…but shouldn’t we be celebrating that all year anyways?

I get frustrated when people feel robbed of their Holiday when someone says "Happy Holidays", instead of "Merry Christmas". Or when I see a sign that signs Merry X-Mas... I get it, the world doesn’t want to celebrate Jesus’ birthday – and yeah, December 25th isn’t the day Christ was born…sorry, kids.

In reality, I don’t want my kids to struggle with confusion of Santa Claus and Jesus Christ. I’d almost be happier if we just let Christmas go and called it “Shopping Holiday #12”.  I'd almost prefer to tell my kids about Jesus without the confusion our modern Christmas creates.

Submitted by Jason L. Buchanan. Visit his Facebook Profile.

#6 Christmas Karaoke And Lots of Champagne

Personally, I celebrate Christmas for two main reasons which are: to recognize and celebrate my religious views and to carry on the WONDERFUL traditions my family has built based on this one special day.

Let’s address the first reason. The whole idea that a child was born into such unfortunate circumstances, just so he could save my life, is simply unfathomable. I am proud to make merry this one day every year that I get to buy or make my family and friends wonderful presents, which ultimately represents, but will never measure up to, the gift that God blessed me with.

Now with that said, my family also likes to enjoy many unconventional traditions that we’ve made first-hand and will continue to enjoy with our children and grandchildren. Our ritual starts on Christmas Eve by going to Kobe’s Steakhouse for dinner and then going to see The Nutcracker Ballet at Fair Park. We finish up the evening by opening only 1 present from a family member and we also do a White Elephant Gift Exchange. The morning of Christmas, we always have my mom’s wonderful pumpkin roll (simply amazing) and we all open presents together. THEN, the real fun starts. We have our annual “touch” football game with our family and close friends. Then, we sing Christmas Karaoke and have lots of champagne. Christmas is a wonderful day for my family!

Submitted by Lindsey Averkamp

Are You Colorblind?

#1 Short And Sweet

I'm not color blind. You're not either. Wanna know how I know? Drive through the 5th Ward in Houston at 2 a.m., or really any time of day. Feel that compelling and overwhelming need to lock your car door? Why is that, do you think?

Enough said.

Submitted by Lauri Lenox

#2 How Shallow

Am I colorblind? The answer is no. I see vivid colors in all shades and hues. The thing of it is that I don’t use those colors as definitions but as attributes. I don’t think that any one person or any group as a whole can be expressed as a color. How shallow it is for someone to consider that they know the depth of another individual from the pigment of their skin. We as individuals do not chose the circumstance of our birth. As humans we are all created equal but from that point, it is strictly up to us. No one else in life is responsible for who we become. From our decisions and our actions do we decide the person that we will be. There are only stereotypes because people choose to uphold those stereotypes. People limit themselves when they define themselves. With that said, a person is an individual. No two people that I have ever met in this life are exactly the same including my girlfriend and her sister and they are twins. To assume that a single commonality such as skin color can come close to defining the array of experiences and trials that create an individual would only diminish our investment in the human race.

Submitted by Jeremy Rinard.

#3 Pretending Our Differences Don't Exist

Are you color blind?

No. I'm not. And I don't want to be.

I'm not racist either.

I simply believe that so-called “color-blindness” when it comes to race and culture seems unhealthy and disrespectful. It is our differences that add to the beauty of this nation and this world. To ignore those differences is silly. I would rather recognize them and appreciate them.

Everyone has a story. I am here because my grandfather, as a teenager, escaped from Communist rule in Eastern Europe and eventually brought his entire family to the United States. A staggering percentage of black Americans descended from someone who beat terrifying odds, having been kidnapped, stuffed into a boat, and crated across the ocean in conditions we can't even imagine, to eventually survive and procreate in the United States. Many Latino Americans descended from, or are themselves, immigrants who gave up their homes and way of life to look for prosperity and freedom in the U.S., some of them risking their actual lives to get here.

A person's culture or race or color is not a means to make conclusions about the integrity or values or personality of that individual. But our histories are to be respected, not ignored. They help make up who we are, one way or another. And all those differences make our nation, our society, more beautiful if we accept each other WITH our differences, instead of pretending our differences don't exist.

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#4 Making It About Race

No, I'm not colorblind. I think to be so would be to ignore the inherent differences between cultures and people, and by virtue of that, to ignore a part of who someone is. The point is not to be colorblind, but rather, to not judge someone negatively because of their color. I think a lot of the time (for instance with our current President), people in the majority tend to think, "Well, why do they (e.g., the nonwhite person) always make it about being Black/Mexican/Arab/etc.?" I believe this stems more from the people in the majority placing too much value on being "colorblind" rather than not being racist. People who tend to say the above statements interpret these people's owning their own unique cultural narrative as "making it about race." My response to that would be, "How can it not be?" We no longer live in a world where those in power, on television, or living next door to us are all the same color as us. As soon as we stop pretending it's possible or productive to be "colorblind" and start talking about and embracing our differences and stop pre-judging each other because of them, we might get somewhere with this whole race relations thing.

Submitted by Amanda Rogers, Esq. Visit her blog - Seven Eighty One.

#5 I Am Proud To Be White

I am not completely color blind because, like others, I obtain particular stereotypes that are far too often verified by other races of people.

However, I am confident that I am far more color blind than many people on earth. There are two roles I believe race plays in society that I find need to be corrected. One has to deal with the caucasian perspective towards minorities, and the other addresses the progression of minorities in society. I will try to explain both with examples.

The first role is that, yes, unfortunately there are those who have not escaped from their own ignorance to understand that if a person's skin is anything other than white, they still have just as much right to live, progress, an succeed in this world. Most discrimination stems from a lack of understanding. A simple way to explain discrimination at school is that children tend to make fun of the things they don't understand. This logic can be applied to race differences. Instead of light humor and fist fights though, we tend to find hate and fatal violence. It seems that a solution would be educating and a deconstruction of a self implied cultural hierarchy, but it hasn't been that simple.

The second role of race that needs to be corrected is appropriateness of using race as an excuse. I know that, because of the ignorance of others, there may still be some challenges when it comes to achievement in society (and I am referring to progressive societies), but it's not impossible. There is no excuse for any minority in this day and age to say that they can't achieve something because of the skin color, especially in a country with a minority President. It is conceivable that it may be harder for some depending on family background, but not impossible.

I am not ashamed to say that I am proud to be white, proud of my culture. I am not a racist, I say it along with all other races who are proud to be who they are. With the ever increasing influence of other cultures in this country I would hope that minorities can learn to appreciate the white culture as they expect white to appreciate theirs and understand (there's that word again) that the white citizens of today are not the ones responsible for the hardships of minority ancestors from the past.

Submitted by Damian Trudell, Visit his blog - "My Thoughts"

#6 My Kids Are

My parents witnessed true racism and segregation. I read about it. My kids don't even know what racism is (yet). In three generations, we have moved both further away from racism and further away from the "identities" of color that once defined us. Can you imagine what my grandchildren will think about race and color? I wonder...will there be some other defining aspect that brings us together for the common cause of discrimination? If not color, what will it be?

Submitted by Jason L. Buchanan. Visit his Facebook Profile.

Is Pornography Bad?

#1 Unnecessary And Inappropriate

This may sound somewhat strange given my personal and moral beliefs, but I don't believe pornography is bad. I do believe that it is unnecessary and in some cases dangerous in the fact the some people are capable of becoming addicted to pornography. I find it unnecessary and inappropriate simply because it's an act that should be shared between two individuals and only those two individuals. Obviously there are those out there who share more explorative ideas when it comes to sex, and I understand that, however i find no reason to share those views or acts with others.

Although, I can't say that the industry of pornography itself is bad the way it is operated. It's a thriving business, something that many Americans dream of achieving. The porn industry simply uses the methods of a capitalistic system to grow, and I don't see how we can fault them for that simply because some people find the product degrading. A numerous amount of people found a way to make money in a legal way, and through pornography, they have been able to make major amounts of money because their product is attractive.

In most cases, the porn industry is not much different from the sports industry. There are those out there who posses certain skills and are able to display those skills in an appealing way which draws attendance. As long as we pay, we will continue to watch, and they will continue to play.

Submitted by Damian Trudell, Visit his blog - "My Thoughts"

#2 "Whatever Floats Your Boat"

Determing whether something is "good" or "bad" is difficult because I don't really believe anything in the world can be boiled down to such black and white terms. Pornography to me is a vice like any other... As long as one partakes sparingly and it isn't hurting anyone else, my feeling on it is, "whatever floats your boat."

Submitted by Amanda Rogers, Esq. Visit her blog - Seven Eighty One.

#3 Pornography Is Wrong

Bodies are a sacred gift from God that are not to be degraded my performing sexual acts for entertainment. As a Christian this is how I view it but, even if I wasn't I just couldn't see how any justification could be placed upon such immoral acts. Even some non-religious people have the same thoughts. Sadly enough, there are some Christians who view pornography or have at one time or another after becoming a Christian. The whole idea behind pornography is just degrading to the people who display themselves and to the people who are watching it. I know Pornography is very enticing to say the least. Especially to Men whom in general seem to have a stronger urge to view it.

Married couples will even Justify it by saying "It will improve our sex lives and give us Ideas, so what's the big deal ?" I'll tell you the big deal is, it's still pornography. If it looks like a duck,walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, then guess what........IT'S a DUCK.

Single men will watch it and think "it's no big deal, I'm not married so I'm not hurting anyone", no maybe not but your taking part of something that is degrading. Young men who view Porn especially Teenage Boy's will have this distorted view as to what a real life woman is and is not. Teenage boy's would probably expect there future wife to be like a porn star and go into marriage with unrealisitc expectations and could cause marital problems. You may not agree with my views and that's fine if you don't but that's my perspective.

Submitted by Stefanie Greene.

#4 Its So Much Sexier When There Is Love Involved

Is Pornography Bad? Pure and simple no, almost never. With few exceptions:

When a child is being victimized (I classify this as anyone not of legal consenting age, which is unfortunately only 14 in some parts of the south still). Or when a woman/man is being exploited.

This is the tricky one. I know... you’ll have to let that sink in...

Here's the twist, just because it involves whips, hand-cuffs, and "punishment" does not make it exploitation, for some it's the rush of their life (or that week), and "can" be a healthy outlet for mild flares for the dramatic, or even sadistic or masochistic tendencies - I'm still talking about the porn "stars" and not the viewers just yet, get your head out of the gutter ;)

However, even the most mundane soft-core lesbian pornography, no penetration involved, can be outrageous exploitation, if it's a woman who is being forced to perform by her pimp, someone who was bought out of the sex-trade industry, or if she's homeless and doing it for her next heroine fix. And this is a fact of the porn industry, because it is a fact of life. Getting rid of porn won’t get rid of young women and homeless boys from being sexually exploited every day.

Now, whether or not it is “wrong” for your husband to watch it behind your back, is another topic entirely! And not one for me to postulate on *LOL* However, I (from a marriage therapist in training point of view) truly can’t see anything wrong with a married couple checking out a bit of amateur married porn together once in a while to get some new ideas and spice up the bedroom. Whaaaat?!? The experts say it’s good for you really! But if you want your woman to enjoy it, I’d stay away from the hard core and outlandish stuff, and stick to watching other amateur married couples and sexual technique videos with real couples in them, after all – it’s so much sexier when there is love involved ;)

Submitted by Summer Cartwrig

#5 Cheapen The Human Body And Intimacy

I have a moral objection to pornography, which is based on my faith and religious beliefs. For those readers who don't give a hoot about my faith and religious beliefs, I will analyze further.

First question: Is pornography good?

Second question: Who does pornography affect and how?

I will use the second question to answer the first.

Pornography most directly affects the actors or models who are viewed, the business persons who finance the production, and the consumers who purchase and/or view the pornographic media produced. The actors or models are paid (i'm not going to go into unpaid, volunteer porn) a small or large sum to display the entirety of their naked bodies, or to have sex on camera (or pretend to) for the benefit of consumers who are most often men who will use the media for masturbation inspiration. No matter what they got paid, that sounds like almost the most degrading thing a woman (I don't know about men) could do to her own psyche and self-esteem. The financiers make lots of money because lots of people are willing to pay quite a bit of money to view porn. I'm sure the financiers and producers think pornography is wonderful. I think they should get a real job. The consumers are trained by pornography to cheapen the human body and intimacy. This must (in my mind) lead to poorer marital relationships, which leads to more broken families, which leads often to more unparented kids.

The brief paragraph I have written seems to me only a small slice of the negative affect of pornography on society. Is pornography good? Not by a long shot. And in this case, the questions answered also lead me to conclude that yes, pornography is definitely bad.

Submitted by Beth Rogers. Visit her blog - Veritable Observations.

#6 What's The Harm?

I don't think pornography is bad. There, I said it. I think when used for the proper purposes, it can enhance a couple's love life. While that can sometimes be the case, excess in anything is bad. Addiction to porn is bad. Then again, so is addiction to caffeine or television. When used in the right way and with the consent of both partners, I don't see anything wrong with it.

My hang up with porn doesn't lie in the viewing of it, but in the people in the industry and their reasons for choosing it. There are actors and actresses in the industry who chose that lifestyle for whatever reason. There are also those women (and possibly men) who have either been forced into it or are looking for some kind of fulfillment that they think a career of this kind will give them. This is where the industry gets its bad name. And then there are those sickos who think it's okay to use children. This, of course, is never okay. I'm not advocating that in any way whatsoever. I'm simply saying that when all parties involved are consenting adults, what's the harm?

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Is The Death Penalty 'Cruel & Unusual'?

#1 Compare That With Lethal Injection

Is the death penalty cruel and unusual? In the past that case could certainly be argued. Whether it was death by firing squad, electrocution, hanging, the gas chamber, or beheading, execution was cruel, inhumane, and incredibly painful. Compare that with lethal injection. Being completely anesthetized and then paralyzed hardly seems cruel in comparison.

Whether you agree with the death penalty or not, the way it's typically administered in the US is hardly cruel and unusual.

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#2 A Matter Of Perspective

Whether the death penalty is cruel and unusual punishment is a matter of perspective. To the accused person's family, I will wager that it is. Try asking the victim's family. I'll bet it doesn't seem so cruel and unusual to them. What's my perspective on the matter? I've always been conflicted about this particular issue. It's not so much that I believe it's cruel and unusual, but it sets a bad example. It's hypocritical. It's like the parent who seeks to teach his child not to hit by spanking him. Really? Is that the lesson we want to teach here? It doesn't seem like we're sending the right message.

While I don't necessarily feel that the death penalty is the right choice, I do feel that there should be an ultimate form of punishment. A crime like murder should not go unpunished, and it should not be punished in the same way as theft. There must be an order to things. Furthermore, it has been shown that not all people who are executed are necessarily guilty. Something as severe as the death penalty should not be enforced unless there is absolutely no question of guilt. Until we have a foolproof system, there needs to a better way.

Submitted by Lauri Lenox.

#3 We Are Capable Of Rehabilitation

I don't consider the death penalty as cruel and unusual, but I don't agree with it either. The death penalty is a form of punishment sentenced to those who exercise actions strongly against the social norm; most common is murder. And while it may seem fitting to end the life of one who insists on ending the life of another, I believe that the majority of abnormal behavior stems from an abnormal psyche. I know there are those who understand and have full control over what they do, even if it's wrong, but there are those who are strongly affected by their abnormalities, and can not help themselves. Various forms of death penalties have existed throughout history, though, I believe these days, we are capable of rehabilitation of the psyche and giving prisoners a second chance of life. I am not naive enough to know that rehabilitation will not work for everyone, but I have strong support for the effort.

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#4 Cruel And Unusual By Whose Definition?

The death penalty may seem cruel to some, but a life sentence without the chance of parole seems cruel to others. Who chooses? The death penalty is carried out by individuals every few minutes; it’s called murder. So, the death penalty is certainly not unusual. OK, so I don’t think the death penalty is cruel and unusual punishment, but I really don’t agree with its use. I’m not saying the death penalty is wrong. Throughout Biblical history, God gave death penalty orders many times. The biggest problem I have with the death penalty in our culture is human error. I am afraid there are too many innocent people on death row while others that are guilty get away with their crimes because of money and position.

Submitted by Donna Buchanan.

#5 The Question My Son Asked

I spank my kids. When they misbehave or disobey, they know that a spanking is a likely punishment. One day, my son asked me, "Why is it OK for you to hurt me, but it is not OK for me to hurt other people?" I answered him honestly with reference to reinforcement and the like. I still spank my kids.

Using the same logic, the death penalty would be the ultimate "reinforcement". They definitely won't commit that crime again...because they are dead. Such a penalty is overtly cruel and unusual because the person/criminal is only considered as a means to executing punishment...with no other purpose. If the punishment is to be understood and comprehended, the recipient must be alive to receive that punishment. Punishment ceases to serve a purpose when the recipient cannot understand it.

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#6 I Can't Wait For The Right Supreme Court Case To Come Along And Ban It

Since we're quoting the Eighth Amendment in discussing "cruel and unusual punishment," I'm taking this as distinct from whether I think the death penalty is "right" or "wrong." I recognize that there are other arguments for whether or not it's right or wrong, but "cruel and unusual" is a legal term, so that's what we're going with.

The Eighth Amendment bans, among other things, "cruel and unusual punishments." Supreme Court Justice William J. Brennan wrote in the seminal death penalty case, Furman v. Georgia, that a punishment is cruel and unusual is it falls into one of the following criteria: 1) it is carried out in a wholly arbitrary fashion, 2) its severity is degrading to human dignity, 3) it is clearly and totally rejected throughout society, or 4) it is patently unnecessary.

On the first criteria of "arbitrariness," I suggest one read up on the cases of Cameron Todd Willingham (who was factually and legally innocent yet murdered anyway by the state of Texas) or John Thompson (who after spending 18 years on death row was released because of the death bed confession of an ADA who withheld exculpatory evidence) or Troy Davis (who has been trying to enter into evidence statements from witnesses who were bullied into identifying him as the killer by police for years and whose case was just granted certiorari). Too many of these individuals have been convicted of capital crimes due to notoriously unreliable jailhouse snitches or "eyewitnesses" for me to consider the death penalty as anything other than arbitrarily carried out (especially considering how black men are inexplicably and disproportionately represented on death row).

On the criteria of whether the death penalty has been rejected by society, I guess that depends on what you consider your "society." Do you consider your society your town? Your state? The United States? The World? In terms of similarity and feeling as one "community," I consider my "society" as the civilized nations of the world. And, guess what? The United States is one of the only countries in the civilized world to still have the death penalty. Yep, we're just as civilized as Saudi Arabia, Libya, and Botswana in this respect.

As to whether the death penalty is unnecessary, it is in all respects. It's not a deterrent, and it certainly isn't efficient. In a recent article in the Journal of Criminal Law and Criminology, eighty-eight percent of criminologists did not believe the death penalty was a deterrent to murder. A recent nationwide survey of police chiefs ranked having the death penalty LAST among deterrents to violent crimes. The South, which executes 80% of all people executed in this country, has the highest murder rates of any region. And, honestly, think about it? If someone is so gone mentally as to think taking another human life is okay, do you really think they are thinking about the range of punishments they might receive for doing it? Thinking the death penalty is a deterrent is not only ridiculous, but has been disproven time and time again. Is it then necessary to keep dangerous individuals off the street? No, that's what life without parole is for. But, one might say, "What about prison overcrowding?" I'll tell you what, release the millions of people in prison for "victimless crimes" such as marijuana possession, and we wouldn't have a problem. Plus, life without parole is a hell of a lot less costly than to carry out the death penalty. For example, it costs the state of Texas $2.3 million to give someone the death penalty. By contrast, in Texas it costs less than $1 million to imprison someone in a maximum security prison for 40 years (about the average term of life without parole). Now, does it make sense to spend that extra $1.3+ million on securing the death of a person that, for the most part, I could give two shits about, or does it make more sense to spend that money on improving our public schools or figuring out other ways to prevent violent crime?

As to whether the death penalty "offends human dignity," since the death penalty is arbitrarily carried out, rejected by the civilized world, and is completely unnecessary, what reason is left for its application? The mob calling for vengeance? I consider vengeance anathema to human dignity. Maybe that's just a personal opinion, but to me "an eye for an eye" just seems childish and petty. The cultivation of vengeance as a social value or "justice" pretty much makes me sick and exists nowhere in my definition of dignity of a society or the individuals in that society. No matter how heinouse a crime, no one on this earth is capable of deciding who lives and who dies on the basis of whether "they deserved it." And in the case of the death penalty, if a society is wrong just once, there's no way to fix it. There's no justice in that.

In sum, as society changes, our values change and whether a punishment fits into one or more of the Furman criteria changes. This is why in 1977, the Supreme Court banned the death penalty for rape of an adult woman. This is also why just last year the Supreme Court banned the death penalty for rape of a child when the child was not also killed. In all, the death penalty is not so entrenched in the American legal system as one might think, and its "acceptability" is constantly being called into question. I, for one, believe that it is not only wrong in every respect of what is moral and civilized, but it fits into the Eighth Amendments definition of "cruel and unusual punishment." As such, I can't wait for the right Supreme Court case to come along and ban it again.

Submitted by Amanda Rogers, Esq. Visit her blog - Seven Eighty One.

Is Space Exploration Important?

#1 Get Control of The Monster

Well, this was something I wanted to write simply based on personal opinion. I imagine that I had dreams like many other children about being an astronaut. All of the movies made over the last decade about space have continued to foster our inner-child as we dream about the unknown. However, our current reality is that we are a nation that is 11.8 TRILLION in debt. We do not need to be spending money we do not have on exploring the “great-unknown.” I like the idea of exploring the universe but in this time of financial crisis we must realize that some things must be cut. Tightening the belt does not mean that when our nation is healthy again we cannot increase our spending again. All of America is being forced to realize that some of their dreams will have to wait. Unfortunately, some of our “inner-child” dreams should wait until our dreams do not continue to increase our debt. So, yes space exploration is important, just not more important than getting control of the monster that is our national debt.

Submitted by Paul Buchanan.

#2 Gotten Out Of Hand

I believe space exploration is important to a cetain degree. I greatly admire those who have the guts to do it, and those who are future astronauts. To be quite truthful, it has gotten out of hand and costly to the USA. I know there is talk about what we can use SPACE for. Is there another form of life, yada, yada, yada...

The discoveries that have been made recently are cool but I think we should just take it easy on fundings for it. There is no doubt that Sapce Exploration is important but it sickens me to know that soooooo much money is being given to NASA when there are critical times on Earth.

Submitted by Stefanie Greene.

#3 So Much To Learn

Absolutely! Space exploration is important for a number of reasons. First, how arrogant is it to assume that Earth is the only planet with life in the entire universe? We are a tiny speck even in our own solar system and not nearly the oldest planet, which leads scientists to believe that life began long before life on Earth.

The universe is vast, which means that the odds that there is more to our reality than meets the eye is very good. Besides, we stand to learn so much about ourselves, our existence, and what else might be out there through space exploration.

There are those who feel insignificant when faced with the expanse of the universe. I have a completely different view. I am excited to find out what else is out there, what other creations exist, what or possibly who we can learn about.

Space exploration is important because it reminds us to never stop wondering, and gives us a sense of humility in the universe.

And then there are all the practical reasons. So much “space exploration” actually teaches us more about life on Earth from medical treatments to botany and improved technologies. The space industry employs so many people, too. To just end space explorations would put hundreds of thousands of people out of jobs and would affect a number of other industries that supply and benefit from space exploration.

And if this isn’t enough to convince you, have a look at this:

http://www.space.com/php/multimedia/imagegallery/igviewer.php?imgid=3971&gid=286

It’s truly amazing…makes my heart race and my eyes bright with excitement!

Submitted by Laura Jung.

#4 Young People Who Dream Turn Into Adults Who Innovate

Space exploration is important for a number of reasons.

One, if we (the United States) don't maintain supremacy in space exploration, someone else will and will end up bombing us from the moon (or somewhere; you know what I'm saying) one day. I'm not a huge proponent of spending billions on military might, but there is some serious military clout in space technology that I'd rather see in our hands than in, say, China's.

Two, space exploration is important because one day we as a human race might find ourselves having ruined this planet and having to move to another. Seriously, that might be an extreme view, but I wholeheartedly believe natural environmental changes, pollution, and overpopulation will have dire consequences eventually. I'd like to have an "out" to survive.

And three (and this may be as important or more so than the others), space exploration reminds us that we're small and keeps our sense of wonder in tact. Who know where we'd be if entire generations of engineers, scientists, and others weren't inspired at all of the possibilities of this world by the Apollo missions or the launch of Discovery after we thought all was lost after the Challenger? I still remember sitting in our school cafeteria in elementary school when they brought us all in to watch the latter; it was magical... Inspiring young people to dream is one of the most underrated priorities of parents, educators, and well, anyone. Young people who dream turn into adults who innovate, and if space exploration does nothing else but help this process, it's certainly important.

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#5 Because We Can

Space exploration is important and should be pursued simply “because we can”. Why do we always need an excuse to be stupidly extravagant on something that doesn’t always pan out like anticipated? :) Just stop pretending that “concrete” results are why we keep sending people up into space – really… Who wouldn’t go up into space if they had the chance?

Though we have obviously benefited from space exploration, I don’t think it is worth trying to justify the noble goal through its own merit. We simply do it because we can. I know there are good reasons to explore space, but we should all just quit lying and fess up to the real reason…"Hmm...send people to the moon, why not?"

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#6 In Comparison To?

Is space exploration important? I would have to say yes, it is. I believe it is important to learn as much as we can about the universe we live in so that we have a better understanding about what surrounds us. It is key to gain all of the knowledge and understanding available to us so that we can teach others everything we know about our universe. Keeping information up to date and current is imperative. Putting correct information in our childrens’ textbooks is certainly significant. That’s one side of the coin.

The other side of the coin is this: how important is space exploration? I realize that wasn’t the question at hand, but I believe it should be addressed. It’s important to know what’s around us, what could potentially happen to our planet and our universe, but is it more important than say, education? Cancer research? I think it’s essential to prioritize where funding goes. There is only so much out there that we have the capability to explore, but there are things here on Earth that need our immediate attention.

Submitted by Lauri Lenox.